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‍‍The four way test is a test to find the good in what you are doing. ‍‍ What if there was a situation where someone wanted to do something that was not a good thing for people around them or themselves? It is not a good decision to do that. If it benefits themselves or the community around them or worldwide it is a great decision! Now take the test and use it while choosing a relationship.‍ Is the relationship the TRUTH? Is it FAIR to all concerned? Will it build GOOD WILL and BETTER FRIENDSHIPS? And will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned? ‍This can help make the decision of choosing a good relationship. In this paper I am going to explain how ‍‍‍you ‍‍‍ can use the four way test to make the decisions on what is a good relationship and if it is a good idea to get into the relationship. ‍‍‍‍‍‍When choosing the person to be in the relationship with using the test would be a great idea. ‍‍‍‍‍‍ If the person is not a good person it is a good idea to rethink the decision of getting into a relationship with that person. The relationship with a bad person would not do any good for the person choosing the relationship and would not benefit them at all. The relationship would not build better relationships and not show any good will. That person could be a lot of trouble and get ‍‍‍you ‍‍‍into a lot of trouble. I would rather be in a ‍‍‍‍‍good healthy ‍‍‍‍‍relationship doing good for both people than just have fun doing bad things not doing any good for myself. The problem with a lot of relationships is people fall for fake love and get themselves in trouble doing things they will regret to give them the little bit of pleasure. ‍‍‍‍They need to look for a good relationship and have love and happiness I both people in the relationship. ‍‍‍‍ Is it a good idea to get in a relationship consisting of little to no communication? That answer is simply no. A relationship should follow the four way test. It should not just include public display of affection and nothing else. That is not a good choice and not healthy for someone. A good relationship passing the test should have communication, getting along, having fun, and making right choices. That would be an ideal relationship. I know not all relationships are perfect and good but they should at least be able to pass three fourths of the test. Now there is reason to use the test in finding a good relationship and getting away from bad ones. It is never a good idea to get into bad relationships and make things miserable for all people around you because it affects them also. Always remember to use the four way test when in a tough situation. ‍‍‍Think; is the relationship the TRUTH? Is it FAIR to all concerned? Will it build GOOD WILL and BETTER FRIENDSHIPS? And will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned? ‍‍‍