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Is there a way to make sure that your decisions are solid and beneficial? Can this method help‍‍‍ you ‍‍‍make life altering decisions like friends and job choices? There is and I am here to show you how it can help. There are multiple scenarios in which this 4-way method can help you. ‍‍The 4-way test can help me to solve many different problems. It can help you in choosing love, friends, and a career.

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The 4 steps in the 4-way test are:

- Is it the truth?

- Is it fair to all concerned?

- Will it build good will and better friendships?

- Will it be beneficial to all concerned?

The first example of a situation that this test can help people is that it can help you in choosing love. If you find someone that you fell deeply for you can ask these questions to see if he/she is the right one. Are you truly in love with this person or is it just an emotion releasing itself. Sometimes, when people feel like they are in love they are lying to themselves so that they don’t feel so lonely; like they finally have a purpose.

Is it fair to all concerned; what if you fall in love with someone and you are already married; is that fair to your spouse? Things like this happen every day. ‍‍‍80% ‍‍‍ of marriages end because of one spouse committing adultery on the other.

‍Will it build good will and better friendships? Do your friends approve of your love? Your friends or your love’s friends might not like both of you being together and that does not make better friendships.

‍ Will it be beneficial to all concerned? The person that you love, do they love you back? are you just forcing yourself onto them or is it accepted?

A second example is choosing friends. Is it the truth; are your “friends” really being truthful to you. Are they nice to you on a regular basis or are they mean to you when other people come around? ‍‍‍Are you truthful to yourself when around them? ‍‍‍

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